Can a man and woman who are friends agree to an intimate relationship but remain emotionally detached succeed without having ulterior motives? I don’t think this agreement will succeed. Someone will begin to form expectations, how things will be or turn out. Being a man, emotional detachment should come easy, but I don’t understand with most things there’s a thin line. And it varies from person to person.
Women, on the other hand, are emotional beings by nature. I don’t think they can remain emotionally detached. In my limited experience with women,they go in to things with a frame of mind and end up playing things out with their hearts, which is an admirable trait, but it leads back to the question if this is possible.
I don’t know if at the beginning the two people are lying to themselves about what they really want or what the person is going through, whether it’s being on the rebound or just looking for something to make them happy for the moment pushes them to make this agreement. In the end will they be able to remain friends regardless of the outcome?
James Pimedo G06871
PO Box 5101
Delano, CA 93216